Mr. Elanchezhian Palanivelu, 3rd Dan
Internationally Certified Instructor
Martial Arts, Yoga, and Chi Kung
As part of International Instructor Certification from Healing Arts Center, Master Bell conducted a Yoga Workshop from October 2023 to March 2024. I attended this workshop along with my family members. Though we have done stretches and a few poses as part of Martial Arts and Chi Kung practice, we haven’t formally learned Yoga. This workshop provided a structured learning environment to explore Yoga as a complete system, the process of using Yoga to bring students to a balanced place and help them navigate the path of personal development. The purpose of this document is to capture my learnings and experiences from this special session.
Having been trained with Master Bell for more than ten years in Martial Arts and Chi Kung, I knew Yoga would be another holistic approach to well-being and personal growth. So the first step was to define the personal purpose for coming to class and practicing yoga. Students understanding the purpose of their practice makes it easier to actively engage their mind, body, and spirit.
On the first day of class, Master Bell had us look at how cute all the colorful yoga mats spread out on the floor looked. He reminded us of the importance of our practice. Instead of just showing up and leaving feeling good, he asked us to pay attention to feeling good and understand the process it takes to feel good. Most of the teachings were through these experiences in the class. So we would be asked multiple times in the class ‘how are you feeling’ questions to bring that self-awareness and get the lessons from the experience.
One of the initial lessons in the class was developing a relationship with the yoga mat while stepping in and out. That self-awareness prepared us for everything else we did on the mat. The head-to-toe warmup exercises were done, slowing down the pace, bringing the mind to the body, and releasing the tension in the body with consciously controlled breathing. With every breath, I noticed the air intake volume increasing and my body relaxing. This preparation transitioned us into poses. As we start the pose, there is an understanding of the physical frame of the body, the different muscle groups, and the definition of the pose. There is a way to get into the pose, the mind guides the body into the pose (without forcing), easing the body towards the way of the pose, stretching more to feel the deep muscles closer to the bone, quietening down the mind to the pose, and through conscious breathing relaxing the muscles. Once the pose is done, there is a way to come out of the pose safely, allowing the body to settle into gravity and assess the feeling and state of being. Then step out of the mat and check the entire body and mobility.
Engaging in deep stretching and continuous breathing supplied a lot of oxygen to the body, leading to improved blood circulation and energy flow. The slow pace and deep stretch resulted in a deeper connection between my mind and body making me aware of muscles I had never noticed before, allowing my mind to be quiet and fully present. I felt a profound sense of rejuvenation.
With a quiet mind, I could pay more attention to my inner self. Throughout our lives, we accumulate habits, unresolved conflicts, strong emotions, desires, beliefs, impulses, and memories, all of which cover up the pure spirit we were born with. Mostly my reactive behavior to a situation comes from the spirit. In the same situation, instead of reacting, I could also engage my mind to see the reality and with reasoning handle the situation. In doing a pose, I can experience these two forces within me. When I listen to the instructions of the pose and engage my mind to lead the body into the pose as per instruction, I can experience a sense of balance and harmony with mind, body, and spirit. In that balanced state, there is no conflict between my mind and spirit because I did it the way it should be done.
While doing the pose, instead of focusing on the way if I allow fear, self-doubt, distraction, aggressiveness, laziness, boredom, multi-tasking, etc. then I’m introducing a conflict. Thoughts like ‘I shouldn’t be doing it as I may hurt myself’, ‘can I do this?’, ‘what’s that noise outside?’, ‘I don’t feel like doing it’, ‘I don’t want to learn this pose’, ‘What’s for dinner?’, ‘This is too difficult I will find another simple way’, ‘I want to get to the final state of pose’, ‘When is the class ending?’, etc. are examples of emotional states during a pose. Or one can go through a pose without being aware of any of it, missing the essence of yoga. The pose would serve as a mirror to see our inner self. In that moment we can clearly see the choice to either give power to this emotional force or give power to the logical force to learn the way and focus on doing that way. Depending on how the mind is used, it can be the greatest ally or the greatest shortcoming.
Through practice, as we get to know these two forces within us and consistently shift control to the mind, we gain mental discipline, become more realistic, resolve conflicts, and experience peace. This state enables us to look at our inner self freely. In the beginning, looking at the inner self with all our past could be challenging. We may not even feel good about certain pasts and toxic emotions like fear and anger. Logically what we have lived so far is our life. Important to know that no matter how strong the feelings are, there is no reasoning in them. The mental discipline we gained with the practice is helpful in logically looking at different experiences. Every life experience has a lesson, so we can look at it honestly and learn the lesson from it to become a better person.
A few important lessons I learned in Yoga class:
Through the Yoga practice, I became physically strong, mentally quiet, and emotionally free. Yoga enhanced my martial arts and chi kung practice. I feel a lot of appreciation for Master Bell for leading us through this path of personal development. This path allowed me to stay tight with my choices, growing together, caring, supporting, and enjoying each other. With this path, I realized the profoundness of my choices. I’m committed to my choices and the practice of healing arts.
With the instructor certification, I feel more responsible for the arts, learning through practicing them, and sharing them with students to build a stronger community.
I had no connection to martial arts until I met Master Bell when we were looking for martial arts class for kids. After listening to where we were in life, Master Bell recommended the whole family to join. He said, “Whatever your need is, bring it to the table, we can do it”. I accepted with some hesitation and joined as a family along with my wife and two-grade schooler boys.
I was born in the pristine Andaman Islands, a faraway island in the Indian Ocean. I had a family of mother and father, an elder brother, two younger sisters, and a younger brother. In the small town I grew up, we knew someone in every corner. Our behavior somewhere outside would reach home even before we reached home. So I dreamed of a bigger world.
After finishing school in the islands, I went to the bustling city of Kolkata for my engineering. I survived four years of adjusting to a different lifestyle. I did my Masters in engineering from Roorkee. This was a coming-of-age phase for me. After my education, I found a job in the capital city of New Delhi. I enjoyed the freedom and financial stability the job brought to me. Then the opportunity to work in the US came my way. Some of my friends’ presence in the US made my move much easier. I’ve been living and working in the Bay Area since 1997.
With some stability in my job, it was time for me to get married. I met my wife through an acquaintance. Within a few months of meeting her, we got married. We expanded our family with two boys. I could sail through this far with whatever skill and resources I had.
As the family expanded and the kids started growing, the choices and responsibilities also grew. My day was structured around my work and kids’ routine. At work, I moved up from engineer to manager with more responsibility that needed a different skill set. It was taking the majority of my time. The remaining time was spent driving kids to various classes and attending social activities. Little time I had with kids, I expected so much from them that it brought disappointments. I didn’t have quality time with my wife so the relationship was stagnant. My personal health and other important things were pushed down in priority. The passing away of my parents also created a vacuum. Not having the necessary skills to handle all my choices resulted in stressful living. The accumulation of stress showed up in my body as pain. I was in search of a better life. That need opened the door to accept martial arts class.
The class showed me the extreme mental attention needed to meet the physical rigor of jumping jacks, warmup exercises, and stretches. This forced me to bring my wandering mind to my body and pay attention to what I was doing. Making breathing also part of every physical movement brought relaxation. As I started doing drills, basic and advanced forms (solo battles) I started feeling better. By aligning mind, body, and spirit (through breathing) in every exercise, I experienced balance. I started practicing the art on my own to experience that balance more. With the practice, my awareness and discipline increased. I could see the person within, my impulses, habits, impatience, fear, disorder, and disappointments. I learned to look at it with honesty and kindness. Master Bell often reminded, “the art can be as deep as your need”.
With Master Bell’s teaching, some of the accepted social norms didn’t stand the test of reality. Most of the time, I noticed myself justifying or defending my own behavior as I was listening. I learned to listen to the simple message as expressed without any defense. That helped me to develop a sense of reality and a broader perspective. My logical sense and awareness took the place of my weak habits.
After six months into martial arts, I was introduced to the basic Qi Qong system. The foundation for this art is balance within oneself. The practice of still patterns helped me to connect with my life source and elevate my energy. Then I went through an advanced Qi Qong system, learning about meridian lines, pressure points, removing energy blockages, emitting energy, and completely rejuvenating my energy. This helped me to break through my years of hardened emotions and ingrained habits leading toward healing. Now I could consistently experience a relaxed body, quiet mind, and stable emotion. I experienced what it meant to be a whole person. I got a better understanding of my choices and the life I lived so far. The result is the simplification of my living by defining moral codes and an order with the right priorities. Along the way I learned simple lessons: relationships need to be developed, kids need to be raised and family needs to be built.
With ten years of Martial Arts, Yoga, and Qi Qong practice, my quality of existence became better. I understood humility and integrity. I’m developing patience and tolerance by accepting the practice as a way of life. As a 54 year old, I’m in a more peaceful place than I ever imagined. My relationship with my wife became better, and I could see her as my equal partner. As parents, we could provide a safe and nurturing environment for kids to grow. Parenting continuously challenges me to develop patience and tolerance. This is allowing me to give my best to kids’ emotional needs. I have a clear separation of work and family that’s healthy. I could be productive and creative at work, bringing along people.
The profoundness of personal growth I went through in becoming a black belt sustains my study and practice of the arts. As a family, we know each other better and are able to love and enjoy each other more. The family is a small supportive community living the same way of life. Looking back, joining the martial arts as a family was one of the best choices we have made.
I’m impressed by the effectiveness and thoroughness of the arts I’m learning in addressing our everyday issues. I’m fortunate to be part of this learning and personal growth. I plan to continue to study, grow, and share my learning with the extended community. It brings another level of challenge and learning opportunity for me. I humbly accept that service.